How does Lunaire work?

Lunaire is an invite-only series of curated dating events in London. You apply to join the invite list, and if your profile aligns with an upcoming event, you’ll be notified. Each night is curated for balance, comfort, and meaningful connection.

How do I get invited to a Lunaire event?

Start by joining the Lunaire invite list. Once accepted, you'll receive invites to events that align with your age, energy, and interests. Tickets are limited and events are balanced by gender and vibe.

What happens at a Lunaire event?

Lunaire events take place in intimate London venues and are designed to feel like a curated social evening. Expect soft lighting, warm hosts, balanced guest lists, and natural conversation—not speed dating or awkward games.

How Lunaire Works: From Invite List to the Event Itself

Lunaire
Aug 28
2 min read

TL;DR: Lunaire isn’t an app, a membership club (yet), or a free-for-all. It’s an invite-only series of curated singles events built for people who are tired of how dating feels and ready for something real. Here’s how it all works, from sign-up to the night itself.

What Is Lunaire?

Lunaire is a series of invite-only dating events in London, designed to feel more like a great night out than a “singles night.”Every event is curated with care: the people, the space, the flow, the energy.

If you’ve ever said:

“I’m not into dating apps, but I still want to meet someone…”

Lunaire was made for you.

Step 1: Join the Invite List

It starts with joining the list.

There’s no pressure or payment to apply. We just ask a few questions to help us understand:

Your age, location
What you're looking for
The kinds of nights you’re open to attending

We work our magic on the rest and review every application manually, because who’s in the room matters.

Step 2: Get Notified When an Event Suits You

Not everyone gets invited to every event. We only reach out when we think there’s a good fit.

You’ll receive:

A beautifully simple invite by email
The age/energy range for that event
The general location (venue revealed after ticket purchase)
Time, date, and ticket release info

If it feels like your kind of night, grab a ticket. They usually go fast.

Step 3: Secure Your Spot

Once tickets open, it’s first-come, first-served. We limit capacity to keep things intimate, not overwhelming.

We always maintain:

Balanced gender ratios
Aligned age/energy groups
A welcoming atmosphere, even if you come solo

Step 4: The Night Itself

Here’s what you won’t experience:

Name tags
Speed dating
Awkward games
Loud music you can’t talk over

Here’s what you will experience:

A thoughtfully chosen venue (think dim lit, soft sound, beautiful layout)
Hosts who welcome you and help you settle in
A warm, open energy that makes it easy to start a conversation
A room where everyone’s single, but no one’s trying too hard

People socializing in a dimly lit bar, conversing and laughing. Drinks on the counter, warm lighting, and a lively, relaxed atmosphere.

What Happens After the Event?

We don’t promise a match. We promise a night worth remembering.

And often, that’s more than enough.

That said, we do follow up with attendees. Sometimes it’s to get feedback. Sometimes it’s to offer you a spot at the next night. Sometimes it’s to say, “Hey, someone didn't quite get the chance to speak to you last night.”